Do we choose who we are?
Encouraged by my better half to share my perspective brought on the
beginning of a new journey. This blog is dedicated to him.
I often wonder if we choose who we are everyday or do situations
really make us? Just like our choice of clothing every day? Some say it’s their
mood that dictates their choices. Some hide behind their garb and best yet some
dress to play a part.
I for one believe if I choose who I am then I have to make choices
everyday starting with what to wear to the mood I carry with me all day
around.
I don't judge the ones who choose what they wear but if I come across
someone who has put in thoughts behind their clothes I am intrigued. I start
spinning my web of imagination around the personality. Somehow the story leads
to me wonder if the people are reflecting what they are wearing, is by choice
or an attempt to hide who they are.
So do we choose who we are or are we a product of our situations, led by our
choices or a representation of our future? The clues are in choice of clothes;
only if we can decode them.